Political and social activist Dr Maryam Shettima has recounted how a bride’s family called off a wedding because they believed the groom’s house does not fit their class.
According to her, the bride’s parents offered to buy a better house, which the groom refused which leads to the wedding being called off.
See her post below;
“We are truly facing an epidemic especially in Northern Nigeria, often perpetuated by parents; classism.
Recently, a wedding was called off based on the fact that the bride’s family felt the house she was going to stay in doesn’t fit her status and class. This was a decent new terrace house? They said they wouldn’t want their daughter to go suffer as she grew up in wealth!!!
The said husband to be is a decent, well educated person with a good job and also from an upper class family too; his parents said that’s all they could afford to house her as the house was gifted to him by his father
The bride’s parents even offered to get a better house that suited her status. However, the husband and his parents stood firm
Consequently, wedding was called off. She went ahead to marry some socialite who practically does nothing. She basically missed out on a great person
Sadly, there are too many of such stories.Weddings are cancelled due to some trivialities and misplaced priorities
Ironically, most of these parents had humble beginnings devoid of the luxuries they place so much importance on. They never allow their kids to navigate life on their own.
Weddings and marriages”